Wedding Planning Tips From Those Who Have Been There

Standing at the altar and saying “I do” can be a nerve wracking experience in itself, let alone the planning process for months (or in some cases, years) before the big day. This article offers some tips to help you easily plan your wedding and take your mind off the rest.

Understand that all who are supporting you and helping with your wedding are doing it out of love, as you should show them respect and appreciate what they are doing for you. Do not become a “bridezilla”, as this can alienate a lot of people and put a damper on the days leading up to your wedding.

You will need to make a choice about how much alcohol you want to pay for, and which type of serving will be most cost efficient. Open bars are typically very expensive, especially when they are open for long time-periods. The venue representative will be able to advise you of the various alcohol service options available.

See if you can use a loved one’s property for your big day. If someone you know owns a large piece of property, like a farm or a place with a large backyard, you can cut down a major cost. Offer to pay people to come into the place ahead of time to do some cleaning and then after the event, and that will be the only costs.

Make sure that you carefully consider what to include in your vows, as they will be something that your future spouse remembers forever. Keep in mind that your marriage is a strong bond between two parties that must both compromise and sacrifice. Express your love for the other person in your vows.

One of the most awkward moments at a wedding can be the bouquet toss. If women don’t want to get involved they shouldn’t be pressured to, so let the DJ know not to say anything to upset the guests. Take a poll before the wedding to see if anyone is really interested in participating and if not, skip it!

If you are planning a wedding, it may benefit you to plan it in an off month. Two of the cheapest months to get married in are October and November. Marriages like anything else are a business. The demand for weddings in these months is very low, so to try to generate higher demand prices are lower.

When the ceremony is over and you’re happily married, don’t celebrate like you’re in the end zone of a football game. You and your spouse should plan what reaction you’ll have, and it’s best if you both smile graciously and walk down the aisle together holding hands. No jumping up and down or dancing!

This article has provided great wedding planning tips and hopefully you are able to utilize at least a few of them. Through careful planning and thoughtfulness, your wedding will be a day you will always remember. Hurry up and get the planning over with so you can enjoy the special day!